Michigan man, 90, brings Christmas to wife in nursing home

In this Saturday, Dec. 8, 2018 photo, Don West, 90, leans in to kiss his wife Jackie goodnight at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care in Charlotte following a Christmas party for residents and staff at the home.  (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Saturday, Dec. 8, 2018 photo, Don West, 90, leans in to kiss his wife Jackie goodnight at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care in Charlotte following a Christmas party for residents and staff at the home. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP) (AP/Matthew Dae Smith)
In this Saturday, Dec. 8, 2018 photo, Don West, 90, leans in to kiss his wife Jackie goodnight at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care in Charlotte following a Christmas party for residents and staff at the home. West hired musician Dennis Michaels, right, to play music. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Saturday, Dec. 8, 2018 photo, Don West, 90, leans in to kiss his wife Jackie goodnight at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care in Charlotte following a Christmas party for residents and staff at the home. West hired musician Dennis Michaels, right, to play music. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP) (AP/Matthew Dae Smith)
In this Saturday, Dec. 8, 2018 photo, Dana West, right, helps his 90-year-old father Don into his Santa suit in Eaton Rapids, Mich. Don is headed to a Charlotte adult foster care home to visit Jackie, his wife of 64 years. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Saturday, Dec. 8, 2018 photo, Dana West, right, helps his 90-year-old father Don into his Santa suit in Eaton Rapids, Mich. Don is headed to a Charlotte adult foster care home to visit Jackie, his wife of 64 years. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP) (AP/Matthew Dae Smith)
In this Tuesday, Aug. 21, 2018 photo Don West, center, sings and claps along to the song "You are my Sunshine,"  at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care nursing home in Charlotte, Mich., as friends and family dance behind them. His wife Jackie had a stroke in June of 2017 and has been at the home since. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Tuesday, Aug. 21, 2018 photo Don West, center, sings and claps along to the song “You are my Sunshine,” at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care nursing home in Charlotte, Mich., as friends and family dance behind them. His wife Jackie had a stroke in June of 2017 and has been at the home since. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP) (AP/Matthew Dae Smith)
In this Tuesday, Aug. 21, 2018 photo, Jackie West, 86, of Eaton Rapids, listens as her husband Don, 90, sings to her during their anniversary party at the adult foster care home in Charlotte, Mich., where she has lived since a stroke in June of 2017. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Tuesday, Aug. 21, 2018 photo, Jackie West, 86, of Eaton Rapids, listens as her husband Don, 90, sings to her during their anniversary party at the adult foster care home in Charlotte, Mich., where she has lived since a stroke in June of 2017. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP) (AP/Matthew Dae Smith)
In this Wednesday, Aug. 29, 2018 photo Don West, 90, speaks from his Eaton Rapids, Mich., home. His wife has lived in a retirement home in Charlotte since her June 2017 stroke. "I visit every day - I haven't missed one day," West said. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Wednesday, Aug. 29, 2018 photo Don West, 90, speaks from his Eaton Rapids, Mich., home. His wife has lived in a retirement home in Charlotte since her June 2017 stroke. “I visit every day – I haven’t missed one day,” West said. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP) (AP/Matthew Dae Smith)
In this Tuesday, Aug. 21, 2018 photo a picture of retired nurse Jackie West taken at about the time she met Don West, her husband of 64 years, is shown at the adult foster care home in Charlotte, Mich., where she has lived since a stroke in June of 2017. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Tuesday, Aug. 21, 2018 photo a picture of retired nurse Jackie West taken at about the time she met Don West, her husband of 64 years, is shown at the adult foster care home in Charlotte, Mich., where she has lived since a stroke in June of 2017. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP) (AP/Matthew Dae Smith)
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In this Saturday, Dec. 8, 2018 photo, Don West, 90, leans in to kiss his wife Jackie goodnight at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care in Charlotte following a Christmas party for residents and staff at the home.  (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Saturday, Dec. 8, 2018 photo, Don West, 90, leans in to kiss his wife Jackie goodnight at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care in Charlotte following a Christmas party for residents and staff at the home. West hired musician Dennis Michaels, right, to play music. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Saturday, Dec. 8, 2018 photo, Dana West, right, helps his 90-year-old father Don into his Santa suit in Eaton Rapids, Mich. Don is headed to a Charlotte adult foster care home to visit Jackie, his wife of 64 years. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Tuesday, Aug. 21, 2018 photo Don West, center, sings and claps along to the song "You are my Sunshine,"  at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care nursing home in Charlotte, Mich., as friends and family dance behind them. His wife Jackie had a stroke in June of 2017 and has been at the home since. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Tuesday, Aug. 21, 2018 photo, Jackie West, 86, of Eaton Rapids, listens as her husband Don, 90, sings to her during their anniversary party at the adult foster care home in Charlotte, Mich., where she has lived since a stroke in June of 2017. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Wednesday, Aug. 29, 2018 photo Don West, 90, speaks from his Eaton Rapids, Mich., home. His wife has lived in a retirement home in Charlotte since her June 2017 stroke. "I visit every day - I haven't missed one day," West said. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)
In this Tuesday, Aug. 21, 2018 photo a picture of retired nurse Jackie West taken at about the time she met Don West, her husband of 64 years, is shown at the adult foster care home in Charlotte, Mich., where she has lived since a stroke in June of 2017. (Matthew Dae Smith/Lansing State Journal via AP)

CHARLOTTE, Mich. (AP) — A 90-year-old Michigan man dressed up as Santa and brought Christmas to a local nursing home so his wife of six decades could celebrate the holidays.

Don West was at his wife’s bedside as a guitarist strummed along during a holiday party at Golden Days II Adult Foster Care in Charlotte. His 86-year-old wife, Jackie, has been living at the home since she suffered her first stroke last year.

“I know there’s going to be an end to it. I know that. And I’m prepared for that because I’ve had good times right now,” Don West told the Lansing State Journal. “Every day, I can tell her I love her, and she knows I’m talking and she responds. We communicate with hands and eyes.”

Her health initially improved, but another stroke stalled her recovery and she must now eat through a feeding tube. He notes that his met his wife at a dance.

“I just fell in love right there,” Don West said. “Never fell out of love since then.”

And they maintain the tradition.

“I still dance with her. She’ll be laying in bed, and I say to her, ‘Jackie, now you and I are going to pretend we’re dancing.’ And I put my arms around her, and she grabs me right here,” he said, pointing to his shirt near the top buttons.

Don West hasn’t missed a day visiting his wife and plans to spend an even longer visit with her on Christmas Day.

“We’ve had a great life,” he said. “And it’s still going yet.”

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